Thursday, June 28, 2007

Lover boy called........


I’m lookin’ for a love…..
I’m lookin’ for a love…..
Lookin’ here and there….
Lookin everywhere……..
Lookin’ for a love I can call my own…..

Wellll……………

I’m lookin’ in the mornin’……….
Lookin’ at night………………
Lookin’ everywhere, but s/he is no where in sight….

[chorus]
I’m lookin’ for a love…….
I’m lookin’ for a love……
Lookin’ here and there…..
Lookin everywhere……..
Looking for a love I can call my own……….
- J.Geils.

Chewbacca called last night. Or maybe it was Sasquach. It wasn’t clear from all the hair in the photo. No, PELT. We entered our profile into Adult Friend Finder, and have heard back from couples and single men. Then we get a couple of winners. “Luv2DoU” sends an email solicitation with a photo. The area of his interest was between his man-boobs and the folds of skin over his knee caps. Right dead center of the photo is his pride and joy. All 4 ½ inches, in full salute. It looked like a Ball Park Frank stuck into an arborvitae tree. Only the BPF was about 30 degrees below the horizontal.

I’m thinking….”you can’t be serious..”

Angie and I tried the web as a source of contact for playmates only to be left feeling kind of disappointed…and even a little dirty. The solicitations from couples have been classier and of more interest, but the single guys could not see from our profile that it is NOT about being a fuck buddy. It is about a relationship.

It is also very much about our own expectations which we are crystallizing in open and sensitive discussions. It feels great to connect like this. This process has brought us closer to each other.

But we are done with AFF single guys.

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