Familiarity revisited; Dressing and Displaying to Kill

Angie and I feel a degree of sophistication is really important in the make up of any playmate we entertain. The polish that comes with maturity and education is going to factor heavily in our selection process. It comes down to a matter of class, and earlier posts by Angie on her choice of playmates covered that pretty clearly. The “low rent” losers we were introduced to on one website service really forced us to rethink the process. From my own perspective, I can not in good conscience share Angie with anyone of less than stellar deportment. If you could meet her in person you would understand. Every once in a while we may be privileged to come into contact with a person who is as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside, and they deserve the best.

Which brings me to how people find playmates. Angie and I have discussed this in the past, and we are interested to hear experiences on different approaches. We’re in the camp that chooses a very careful and deliberate process of finding partners by personal acquaintance, to establish a personal connection before opening the door to other possibilities. It happens to fall in line, too, with a philosophy of “one partner/one couple, at a time.” We know some people in our circle of readers/bloggers, like BD of Cuckold Husband, go to swingers clubs. Angie and I find that intriguing, if a bit unsettling. It seems to us that clubs offer quantity, and more likely, transitory relationships, that we surmise is cool if you are looking for no commitments. Plus people know up front what you and they are there for, so there is little possibility of misunderstanding. It reminds me of the Disco days, before AIDS, when you went to a club knowing the endless possibilities. However, if it is a game of accessibility and numbers, there appears to be the absence of a “vetting” process that determines if you will actually like the person, and maybe not catch an unwanted gift. How does that work for you swingers out there who enjoy swing clubs and many partners? How did you handle the first time going to a club? Maybe you could convince us to try it.

There is the other subject of ankle bracelets. The symbol of the Hot Wife. Is it me, or is every 1 in 5 married woman out there wearing one? Maybe I am sensitized to this little accoutrement, but I have been surprised at how many wear the anklet on the right leg. Are you seeing the same thing?

On to other matters. I have to acknowledge the fine art of a woman Dressing Up To Kill. If you have the same tastes as me, you appreciate the accentuated length of a leg in high heels, and the danger of stockings with that little seam.

I am also an aficionado of thongs.....................

......and the womanly form in all its sensual and sexual power.