Across the Threshold

Our uninhibited expression of sexual fantasy during love making has been an added delight to our bedroom activities, and opened the door to thoughtful discussion of what we would find erotic, enticing, and comfortable enough to seriously consider doing.

Bi-sexual love with another husband-wife couple has provided us with a rich playground of scenarios to play in each other’s mind. It is an infinitely more attractive arrangement to me than bringing a single man into our relationship because of the possibility of woman-to-woman interaction. The imagery of Angie doing the man and woman concurrently is so erotic to me that it seemingly acts to stretch my erection beyond its normal proportions, and most definitely brings an added degree of creamy flow from Angie’s pussy. I again must concede that I would not be playing with the other woman, but be the observer of Angie's interaction with the couple. I would pleasure only Angie as a reward, and at her leisure. This is the rule Angie insists I obey.


We spoke about the wild idea of me sucking the man’s cock. Would that be a turn on for her? Do I think I could really do that? The respective answers were “yes”, and a “qualified yes.” Angie did find the imagery of a bi-sexual act between me and the other husband to be a turn on, but interestingly said she did not want him to come in my mouth when I asked if that would be a turn on for her. From my own perspective the idea of sucking cock is intriguing, even though I do not believe I am bisexual. However, I know sucking another man would challenge me mentally and emotionally. I think that is really the underlying thread to Angie’s interest in seeing me go down on her male lover. Would I do something that challenging for her pleasure? Yes, but I won’t take it up the ass. There ARE limits.

The issue of limits begs the question of her sexual congress with another woman, but I am like most men (and women?) who consider female sexuality to be so inherently free of the same strictures placed on heterosexual men that woman-to-woman sex is not perceived as "wrong". However, I admit to a prejudice with lesbian love. I find ”lipstick love” between beautiful women to be OK, but am turned off by bull dyke lesbians having sex with one another. It is too close to full-on homosexual love between men which I find a turn off too. I know, a lot of contradictions here, but that is the way it is in my mind.

I find I want an arrangement with another couple more than any other scenario, although Angie still keeps the door open to the possibility of a single male lover.

Angie has said she would spend some time in the next couple of days writing her thoughts of what she envisions for the people and events we may experience. Our discussions were eye opening, and really quite hot. The sex afterward was amped by the dialogue. No surprises. Hot sex starts in the mind.