Never Say Never

It’s been over two years since we last posted to Lexicon. At that time we had just attended a Halloween party for swingers at a well known hotel in Worcester. That experience left us disenchanted with the swinger lifestyle, partly because we could not see more than a few couples attractive enough to our tastes to risk engaging them, but more so to the fact we somehow felt….dirty, and turned off. Retiring from the festivities we lay in our bed in our hotel room listening to the cavalcade trooping into our neighbors’ room next door. From the muffled introductions we could hear through the walls it appeared total strangers were just jumping at the chance to get it on. The moaning and “ohh my god!” proclamations assured us that at least somebody was having fun for the evening.


So we drifted away from the “lifestyle” somewhat disillusioned. We came to appreciate our own parameters more fully. The failure at the Halloween party put the fact we are simply not that carnal to just jump strangers with no previous social connection into high relief. We have to get to know people before opening ourselves up. There has to be a connection of the mind and psyche before there can be the connection with the flesh.


Having said all that it came to pass in 2009 that we thought again how exciting it would still be if we could find the right playmate(s). What was also distilled out of our conversations was Angie’s reticence to let Alex play with another female. And thus we arrived at a mutual agreement that Angie would continue to have the freedom to choose and engage lovers, but Alex would have to remain chaste.


It took another year, up to early spring of this year to be exact, to start things back up again. A long and exhaustive search that forced the both of us to wade through a mess of lousy applicants finally surfaced a fine gentleman who we will call “Ross”. He is different from Angie’s previous lover, Wilson, but of the same disposition that works so well for her and Alex. So we began the process of Angie once again having a regular lover. She has not been disappointed, and Alex is content to accept his role as cuckold husband once again.


This more narrowly defined “lifestyle” works for the both of us. We feel a connection with Ross, and there is a margin of safety given that he is a professional, unattached, has his own home, and is discrete. The fact he shags Angie royally doesn’t hurt either. Angie has expanded the nature of their relationship to include role playing where she dresses herself in a variety of sexy attire to surprise and excite him, as well as foodstuffs to satisfy the pallet before and after their trysts. For his part Alex can take credit for buying Angie wonderful clothing for her fun that includes leather, boots, lace, and slinky club wear that shimmers and accents the curves of her alluring figure. Angie has come home more than a few times to treat Alex to the cream of their labors, and he is happy to service her in preparation of his own pleasure with his lovely wife.


As of late Angie has been back in contact with Wilson who has moved on to his own relationship, but they maintain a close and fond connection with each other. The most recent outcome has been Angie's correspondence with Wilson by email to tell of her recent exploits. It may be that she wants Wilson to vicariously “live” her rekindled sexual adventures, and witness her husband’s cuckolding.


Our next post may include those email exchanges.