Better sex, More sex

Women are fascinating creatures. More complex psychologically than men, in my view. Seemingly inexhaustible, during sex when their fires have been properly stoked. Stoking that fire, I have long since learned, is something that takes place in the mind more than around the clitoris. Although working the clitoris works pretty well in getting things going, it is in his wife's mind that the husband has the keys to achieving her maximum levels of pleasure. If he gets it right upstairs, it's going to be right downstairs. I, like all men, love to see a woman orgasm, and nothing gives me quite the same psychological pleasure as knowing I am bringing Angie to her highest level of pleasure. Tasting her cum on my tongue, or feeling it laving my erection are the icing on the cake, so to speak.

Angie and I have spent several conversations over the past year talking and rejoicing over our new found passion, and like the over-sexed college kids of our past, giggling over our heightened sex life. It was during one of these earlier conversations that I asked Angie if she has ever thought about having another lover. Her response was "no, you are enough," and that was a nice compliment. She is certainly enough for me. My question had no underlying selfish motive. I was just curious about her ever wanting more. For a long time there in years past we averaged less than one sexual encounter a month. So it would not have been a surprise to find out that her mind might have wandered into the fantasy of having another man.

My continued research into the dynamics of relationships and marriages brought me to some very interesting reading. Eventually it led me to blogs where the subject matter was about various flavors of marriage dynamics that one doesn't hear too much about in mainstream media, but that appears to have a larger body of interested voyeurs, and more than a few actual participants. In the context of my renewed commitment to Angie's happiness I thought there might be something here to explore with her as an expression of my commitment to her total experiential fulfillment.